Confession #CRR073FW

udw pay it’s ok, plenty of other guys are happy to pay.

and also, guys are hella entitled in other senses too 🤷‍♀️ many have the emotional intelligence of a kindergartener and expect girls to baby them

either way, your money cannot cover the inconvenience of having cramps and monthly periods and not to mention getting pregnant and making a whole ass human being inside you for 9 months but hey, you do you and go ahead not pulling your fair share

I guess men are supposed to be blamed for your biology or compensate for it LOL

Guys do 2 years of ns plus reservist. Girls don’t have 2 pregnancies now. Maybe government should tax the women that don’t have babies or adopt

And with a whole law system covering their right in all aspects. What are they expecting of men? The stronger party is supposed to choose a "pet" he or she likes, this is how things worked for thousands of years. The demand on men's appearances has set roots for so long already but something isn't right, because when you are a big fish and you see a good looking potential mate you are supposed to do only minor personality checks and then start leaving treats around and slowly encourage them to come closer. But it's clear that women ain't playing the game like the old powerful ones, it appears that their demands are on the next next level and we are so fucked, we should have carefully considered the fact that the "passing criteria" posed by women are inheritly high. Now there's no way to stop them anymore, we thought we could just live like women of last era, with decreased rights but fairly good passing and survival rate, but no, with these new bosses around we are all going to be considered defective people and into the Furnace we go....... sooner or later.

no one is blaming anyone for biology, but that’s the reality of having a female partner. esp if uw kids then honestly isn’t it kinda entitled to just sit there while your wife 1) earns money 2) pays for everything 3) grows a whole baby 4) has to breastfeed etc? i’ve seen many guys who want kids but don’t think about the reality of it, the physical toll it has on your body. and now you also want women to pay for you?

to put in a fair word, i agree that there are some outright entitled girls who expect the guy to pay for *everything* while being a spoilt immature xmm who is a big crybaby. but then again, im p sure most women who are earning a decent amount aren’t that type, and can handle themselves.

and tbvh, if as a woman i’m outperforming you + earning more than you, why would i want a partner who is less capable and less intelligent, yet with a bigger ego than me? (which unfortunately, most guys have a p hefty ego)

since u want equality, yea u do need to compensate for it. otherwise it’s not equal because women are giving more than males are. esp if the male wants kids.

so if the man doesn't want kid then there is no need to pay. got it! 👍
what a stupid generalisation

hello 50 50 is not paying for everything. stop using extremes to justify ur flawed argument

Lemme clarify some concepts.
1) earn money and pays.
I am not talking about paying for everything, but "should pay" like men of last era. Which means men still "pass" if they expect you to pay.
2) Grow a baby,
This part men cannot do, but you can reasonably expect men to support your needs, in this period, just like how last time housewives support the family when the men is down from work injury.
3) breastfeeding etc
This is the most important part. I am talking about "passing" and accepting sub standards. Sure, mothers do a lot, but things always go wrong. Nobody is going to pay you extra for doing everything right but nobody can hold you accountable for producing sub standards either. For Breastfeeding, anything can happen, an infection might occur and call off this whole thing altogether. Maybe only a few drops come out, and the majority of the work gets done by baby formula. Did men carefully profile women to identify those susceptible to those problems? No! And this "unaccountable" is what we ask for, and since the power dynamic in the house has already changed, you are already in a position to give out orders, you can manipulate the manpower you see, like men of last era. But we did not exercise the right to "fail" women, cook rubbish? Pass! No milk? Pass! Might spend excessively on her own entertainment like clothes? Pass! Now we ask for the same treatment, men doesn't want to pay? Ok we can argue, but you consider it an ok phenomenon and mark us as "pass" first.
Last but not least, body damage. Nobody can repay you for that. Sportsmen have ACL problems, permanent injuries are also possible during NS, the more risky jobs are also taken by men but no known sources say they get special treatment from their wife. I have personally never seen people getting properly compensated for it, just live it down I guess?

what garbage am i reading. It aint that deep. All these ppl crying are red flags

you are literally the one generalising that ALL women want men to pay for everything