I’m not too sure if #CQO877BT is my bf, but a lot of the details are very similar to my own relationship with my bf. Assuming that it is indeed him, I will address some of his concerns.
1. I have offered to give him taxis home, but he would always reject the offers, saying that it was a waste of money and he could just take the bus.
2. It is true that my bf usually pays for me. Sometimes when I offer to pay, he will say no. He usually only lets me when he is running out of money. Anyway, if he was unhappy with the arrangement, he could have told me about it directly.
3. If this is my bf, then I can confidently say that not once did I ever say what he did was the bare minimum, or that some bar is too low. He is making up these thoughts in his head. Also, while it is true that I do love jellycat, I would never force him to buy one for me. I have my own money.
A word on behalf of gfs. We just like it when you go out of your way for us. Buying me a jellycat when I did not ask for one makes me feel loved, because you remembered that particular bunny I liked. Sending us home is a nice to do that, again, makes us feel cared for and loved. Not compulsory, so if you don’t like it, you can speak to ur gf.
If you don’t have the guts to say what is on your mind to my face, then I will play this game with you and keep the discussion online for all to see. If this is not my bf, then just understand that what you may need to do is to communicate with your gf.