WTF? How can bf treat you better than your dad treats you? You don't even "risk becoming his mom" when you select a mate. Bf and Gf are for mating bro, even barbarians has more sense than you! He wants "the most beautiful women around", he selects from a pool of what is available, you see, not by some solid standards like "able to patch up some rug", "able to skin some rat and make a glove for me", because don't have means don't have bro, however reasonable your demands might be, you gotta settle with what the world can provide for you! If you really think you can get rich men, go and hunt them down!